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How a language exchange evening works

If you have never been to one, a language exchange can sound a bit mysterious. It is not. It is a friendly conversation in a café or bar, with a language plan.

Arriving

Book your place first, then arrive a few minutes early. Look for the host, say hello and get a drink. Everyone pays for their own.

Introductions

You will usually start with names, where you live and which languages you speak or are learning. Keep it short. Two or three sentences is plenty.

Switching languages

Many groups spend the first half in one language and the second half in another. The host will tell you the plan. Some tables use a different method, such as one language at one end of the table and one at the other. Both work.

Topics

Easy topics keep the conversation moving: food, travel, work, hobbies, plans for the weekend. If the conversation dries up, ask "What is your favourite...?" and see where it goes.

When you get stuck

You will. Say it more simply, use gestures, or ask "How do you say this?" Switch to English for a moment and come back. Nobody minds.

Corrections

Some people like to be corrected and some do not. Tell the group what you prefer.

Afterwards

If you got on well with someone, message them in the app and meet again. Second visits are easier than first ones.

You can see tables near you on the Meet tab, and find out more in what to expect at your first table.

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